In real life driving I seem to have developed an automatic focus on, and love of being balanced on the suspension in turning and braking, and keeping the car semi-loaded/stable at all relevant times, in case it needs any quick input to avoid cars/animals. And then being ready to correct the balance immediately. It seems to me a car is like a steel bouncy-castle. Keep those four springs smooth and steady, and with some spare compression. And know when to lock the brakes to try to control the direction of an out-of-control car/bouncy castle.
And an increase in automatic attention/responses to wheel feedback, to surrounding cars and their intentions and likely dynamics/momentum. And noticing road conditions that others have mentioned (e.g. being extremely terrified of the smooth highway grooves on wet days). F1 sims perhaps help with the high-speed information overload, and being able to drive on the road under me, and the road 50-100 metres ahead at the same time.
Maybe summed up as trying to know the things I need to be ready for, before I need to be, and as a consequence hoping to avoid those things. And then being hyper-ready to act as a result. Having the capacity to act more automatically and quickly, and hopefully correctly, rather than thinking consciously and panicking. I'm fortunate that I've never had to prove that in an extremely dangerous real life situation though, and perhaps that's why? But let's not get complacent now...
Considering the dangers on the real roads, there is no way I'd throw away what I've gained from sim-driving.
Stay legal and safe on the roads, for you and for others
