Being ignored in the Forum

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  1. maximus1971

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    @Lazza : by reading your message I hesitated to put a like .... LOL !
     
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  2. RaceNut

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    @redapg

    Thank you!

    Just to make up for one you are missing. ;)
     
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  3. redapg

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    As said, i'm not asking for Likes or a "Thank you" as a Reply.
    Also a "You da mn Idi ot, what a Bu ll sh it you are trying to tell me?" gets accepted. :D
    And also another Aspect comes into the Game.
    It would help Others too, that have the same Problem, if there would be any Information, if a given Answer was helpful and the Problem could be fixed.

    BTW I decided to give everybody a "Like" who posts here.
    I hope i ignore Nobody. :D
     
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    redapg you have always been very helpful mate, I know it can be hard when people don't respond as they should I guess good manners are free but so are bad manners ;)
     
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  5. maximus1971

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    @redapg : I fell into a trap a few days ago on the forum on my subject f1 1979, a member asks me for the links of two circuits of our championships. I make the mistake of giving it in public, the same member denounces to the administrators the links which are not Rf2. the administrator sanctions me by removing the whole subject. jealousy? revenge ? that's an example of an asshole.;)
     
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    Not even close to being the same thing, you shared illegal content and our moderators that reports you are not jealous of your league. There are rules and you breach it. Now let it go please..
    But redapg - thank you for helping out fellow users i am sure they are happy about it :)
     
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  7. redapg

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    Please do not use this Thread for your personal Conflicts.
    If you have a Problem with someone, contact him directly.
     
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  8. maximus1971

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    @redapg : you ask me a question and I give you a concrete answer / example and then you come to give me advice. Pffffffff ..... that deserves the opposite of a like. o_O
     
  9. redapg

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    ??? Where did i ask you which Question?
     
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    Many of your posts helped me when I was starting, even if I read the answers in posts other than my own so thanks from me.
     
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  11. redapg

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    Thank you, but it wasn't my Intention to get Compliments, when i opened this Thread. ;)
    But kind Words are always welcome, of course. :)
     
  12. Love Guitars n Cars

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    You can have ten positive comments and one negative but unfortunately it's the one negative that we focus on. It's just human nature I suppose.
     
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  13. redapg

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    But this Thread is about being ignored. ;)
    For me, every Comment, no matter if positive or negative, is better than to be ignored.
     
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    Very nice to get appreciation and respect. But often those who has some critical points are the most valuable ones, ofcourse some are not great or plain wrong, but many are interesting to discuss, and sometimes just simply right. I think people mustn't avoid to disagree, it can be positive depending on how it is done.

    As for helping anyone. I am not a massive helper, but even I understand that if you devote your time to help someone without asking anything in return, it means you care, and very likely you'd be interested if the help worked, if the results are satisfying... It is just common sense.

    To brake it down even more simple, if you are in a community or some relationship with another human being, then you expect feedback for your inputs into it. You can't have a community where creative and intelligent people feels like they talk with themselves, or do stuff for themselves when there is either no response, or it is extremely shallow in reference to the input.

    The weaker rF2 community gets, the less longevity there will be. Is it good for someone ?

    Dogs are more sociable than many gamers, I'd probably suggest to get a dog for many. Also start working out if you don't, I started launching steam less and beign physically active more. Value your time and yourself in general.
     
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    I'm still waiting for an Answer, to the Question where i did ask you which Question, that i did ask here in Post #29 already.
     
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    You ask that the problems be solved in private and there you ask me in public, begin to apply to you what you ask of the others. I will answer you in private.
     
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    @redapg : Thank you, but it wasn't my Intention to get Compliments, when i opened this Thread. ;)
    But kind Words are always welcome, of course.
     
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    I don't have to understand it, right?
    You had written:
    And i want to know where i did ask you which Question.
     
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    @redapg : "You da mn Idi ot, what a Bu ll sh it you are trying to tell me?"
     

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